- Vacation location in Michigan:   Grand Haven, Michigan, an idyllic fishing and recreational and camping town on the shores of Lake Michigan--the stroll along the boardwalk to the historic lighthouse is breathtaking. The evening sunset is spectacular! And there's nothing better than the soft, soothing sands along the beach!

- Appetizer:  the barbeque meatballs at Win Schulers in Marshall, Michigan--melt in your mouth. Four generations of family members have been operating this historic restaurant since 1909. First class service and exceptional food are just some of the reasons this epicurean delight has withstood the strains of a changing economy.

- Hotel:  The Ritz-Carlton (Dearborn) ambience and personal attention are the hallmarks. The Ladies and Gentlemen of the hotel as they are called provide some of the best guest service on the planet! And having won the Malcolm Baldrige National Quality Award twice separates this prestigious hotel from the other wanna-bes.

- White bean chili soup: Kirby Grill in Grand Haven--soup so good your knees will buckle when you taste it.

- Summer vacation:  Mackinac Island with lunch at The Grand Hotel. The Hotel boasts the world's longest porch. No cars allowed on the Island just horse drawn carriages. The aroma of fudge and equine droppings fill the air but travel there in June for the lilac festival for a nostril treat!

- Pizza: Buddy's in Detroit

- Amusement Park:  the Michigan Adventure Park in Muskegon takes high honors and a ride on the roller coaster Shivering Timbers is spectacular. Over 60 rides and attractions and a spectacular water park with 20 wild water rides.

- Michigan restaurant:  The 1913 Room at the Amway Grand Plaza in Grand Rapids. This is the only AAA Five Diamond restaurant in our state and the service and the menu selections are first class. In 2008 it won that distinction for the seventh time.

- Canoe trip:   the White River in Montague, Michigan. The site of blue heron taking flight, ducks swimming frantically away and startled deer racing through the grass and the occasional muskrat swimming in the river provide memories that will last a lifetime.

- Golf course:  Crystal Mountain in Thompsonville, Michigan. Panoramic views of northern Michigan foliage and firs and well manicured fairways.

- Romantic getaway:  the Betsie Bay Inn in Frankfort, Michigan. Rooms are outfitted with hot tubs, saunas, canopy beds, and wood burning stoves. Perfect getaway for married couples and if you weren't married when you arrived, you will be when you leave!

- Snack:  the Pronto Pup Stand in Grand Haven has been delighting hot dog aficionados for over 60 years. Grab a couple of doggies and then stroll along the boardwalk. And then settle in for the Musical Fountain at dusk along the Grand River.

You Want: A Course to Wow Women...and everyone else

PLAY AND STAY: The Heather, Boyne Highlands Resort

Credit its gracious curves or the thick forest and blueberry bog it wends through, but beauty isn't the only reason Golf for Women magazine named Boyne Highlands' The Heather one of the world's top 50 courses for women. Exemplary conditioning, fair play from the forward tees, and course architect Robert Trent Jones Sr.'s ruthless demand for accuracy all played roles in the ranking, as did Boyne Highlands' 415+ luxury accommodations. Hotel rooms, suites, condos and cottages are available here, though business groups may appreciate the recent hotel upgrades most: ultra-plush bedding and wireless Internet is available in each room, the latter in most common areas as well. Harbor Springs, 800-GOBOYNE,

You Want: Short but Oh So Sweet

PLAY AND STAY: Threetops, Treetops Resort

No course offers so much fun in so few strokes. Huge on dense woods, sublime vistas and elevated tee boxes that make you feel like you're swinging from a cliff top, the beauty of Threetops besides the fact that it's ranked the No. 1 Par 3 course in the nationis that no matter how poorly you or your crew play, everybody's got a shot at starting anew about 150 yards up. Heck, even nonplayers will enjoy this placethe twisty, roller coaster cart path ambles through some of the prettiest scenery in Northern Michigan. Bonus: Treetops resort offers excellent dining optionsfrom catered meals to the resort's secluded River Cabin. Gaylord, 989-732-6711 ext. 2660,

You Want: To Shake in Your Spikes

PLAY AND STAY: The Bear, Grand Traverse Resort & Spa

Home to Michigan's oldest and most prestigious golf tournament, the Michigan Open, Jack Nicklaus's The Bear  is where scratch golfers go to test their mettle. Credit the links-style course's menacingly deep pot bunkers, ten holes' worth of water hazards, deep grassy roughs, moguls, mounds and the highest slope rating in the state. Surviving a Bear attack isn't easy, but the resort makes it worth your while, offering at day's end a retreat into a resort that's fresh from a fabulous multi-million dollar renovation. Fine and casual dining, shopping, meeting spaces that can accommodate 10 to 2,500 people, and a 100,000-square-foot spa complex are on site. Traverse City, 800-236-1577,

You Want: The Wilderness Experience

PLAY AND STAY: The Rock, Drummond Island Resort and Conference Center

The Rock is a course carved out of limestone. Each generous fairway is framed by dense stands of hardwood and cedar, ensuring that scenic solitude is the only standard of play. And besides the island course's many ponds, lakes and waterfalls, you're likely to find another awe-inspiring hazard: whitetail deer and other wildlife jaunting across the fairway. A true sanctuaryand certified as such by the Audubon Nature Preserve SystemThe Rock is the place to go for any golfer looking to get wild Up North. Waterfront cottages, full-scribe log cabins and a luxurious, rustic-chic hotel, plus a pizzeria-bowling alley, fine dining and excellent meeting accommodations are all par for the course here. Eastern Upper Peninsula, 800-999-6343,

You Want: A Course Everyone Will Love

PLAY AND STAY: Cedar River Golf Course, Shanty Creek Resort

Working with Cedar River's natural glacier-carved terrain may have been an odyssey for famed golf course architect Tom Weiskopf, but for golfers (and photographers), its breathtaking vistas, deep ravines and rolling terrain are an inspiration. Fives sets of tees and expansive, undulating greens accommodate golfers of all abilities. Likewise, while some holes demand accuracy and control at the outset, several offer a wide landing area to keep newbie spirits up. Bring clubs and a camera for this one. Cedar River Village, serves up 72 elegant suites and studios, 14 condos and 7,100 square feet of meeting spaces that come complete with Internet-connected task tables. A complimentary shuttle provides access to additional services and facilities at Shanty's nearby Schuss and Summit Villages. Bellaire, 800-678-4111.

You Want: To Be a High Roller

PLAY: Arcadia Bluffs Golf Course

Hop in your GPS-equipped golf cart or summon one of the ready caddiesat the esteemed Arcadia Bluffs, you are king. Your kingdom? A course ranked No. 10 in Golf Digest's list of 100 Greatest Public Courses in America. Arcadia provides nearly 300 acres of windswept lakefront property etched in the style of ye olde seaside Irish links and perched high above the roiling cerulean waters of Lake Michigan. Hole 16stretched out along a cliff of shoreline frontage with a 225-foot drop to the beachis just one of the reasons folks call this place majestic and awe-inspiring. We call it the closest an American golfer can get to Ballybunion without boarding a plane. Arcadia, 800-494-8666.

You Want: Unforgettable Golf and an Extraordinary Meal

PLAY: Black Forest Golf Course

Black Forest, the first masterpiece of the world's preeminent minimalist golf course architect and Traverse City local, Tom Doak, is secreted deep in a forest of pine, oak and maple. But trust us, this hidden gem is worth finding. Each hole is isolated in the woods like an island unto itself, making it possible to go an entire round without ever seeing another foursome. Expect wildly contoured greens, dramatic bunkering, impeccable conditioning from tee to pin andno matter how you play a grand finish: the clubhouse's elegant Osprey Grill feels more like a vacation retreat than a restaurant. Kick back with a cocktail on the richly appointed second-level deck, then cruise inside for Chef McKay's always in-season, always Northwoods-inspired menu of freshwater fish and premium cuts of steak, pork and chicken. Gaylord, 866-585-7090,

You Want: To Bypass the Velvet Rope

PLAY: True North

Get in while you still can. True North Golf Club is private an exclusive, first-class course built for True North Estates, the emerging gated community that surrounds it. But until the last home site and membership is sold, the club allows nonmembers to play once as a guest between June 19 and September 2 each year. The single-round restriction doesn't apply before and after those dates, or for group and charity events, but however you slice it, time is running out on the chance to experience the course Golf Digest named best in the state last year. Harbor Springs, 231-526-3330,

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